Get off the widespread victim standpoint:
I can't get what I want...
- I'm not good enough
- I'm too little, too stupid, too dumb
- I am powerless, helpless
- I'm different, I'm better, I'm special
- I'm not lovable, I'm not worth it
- I am not wanted
- I am wrong, bad, evil
manifests itself among other things in:
`being insolvent, bankrupt, indebted, (multiple) divorces, single parent, getting the wrong partner, unsuccessful, blaming others, quitting again and again, long single life, working a lot with little money, drama, a lot of anger, anxiety, insomnia, quarrelling, stress, frustration, depression, little intimacy, failure to achieve goals, self-sabotage, etc.
and is an expression of:
anxiety, lack and distrust, and being the victim of circumstances
Investigation of the problematic topic and dissolution of the reasons and their history, formation of new, functional perspectives to achieve desired results.
expresses itself in:
Joy, affection, fun in life, joy in work, trust, finding the right person, enough money, success in other areas of life, serenity, being happy, acknowledging what-is, peace
to a life as an expression of:
love, abundance and trust and being the master of one's life